Charming, fluffy, and decadently sweet, this Catch a Husband Cake is more than just a dessert—it’s an old-fashioned Brazilian love spell! Known as “Bolo Para Casar,” this cake is famed for being so irresistible that one bite might just lead to a marriage proposal. With a moist coconut-infused base, creamy sweetened condensed milk glaze, and generous topping of shredded coconut, it’s hard to argue with its reputation.
It’s a tropical twist on traditional bundt cake that’s surprisingly easy to make but looks like you spent hours on it. Whether you’re trying to impress a date, woo your in-laws, or just spoil yourself, this cake is a delightful showstopper perfect for birthdays, brunches, or just a Tuesday sweet tooth.
What Makes Catch a Husband Cake So Irresistible?
The secret lies in the heavenly combination of ingredients that feel both rich and light. The cake is typically made with pantry staples: eggs, condensed milk, coconut milk, and shredded coconut—all whisked together into a soft, spongy batter. The sweet glaze sinks into the warm cake, making it ultra-moist, while the coconut adds tropical flair and texture.
Plus, it’s a one-bowl wonder. No creaming butter, no fancy stand mixers—just mix, pour, and bake. It’s foolproof and crowd-pleasing, the kind of recipe you pass down generations.
Ingredients for the Catch a Husband Cake
- Sweetened Condensed Milk: The main source of sweetness and that signature creamy texture.
- Coconut Milk: Adds tropical richness and moisture.
- Grated Coconut: For body, flavor, and that chewy topping.
- Eggs: Provide structure and richness to the cake.
- All-Purpose Flour: The base that holds it all together.
- Sugar: To enhance and balance the coconut sweetness.
- Butter: Adds richness and helps with a tender crumb.
- Baking Powder: Gives the cake a light, airy rise.
- Vanilla Extract: For an aromatic depth.
For the glaze:
- Sweetened Condensed Milk and Coconut Milk again, gently simmered to pour over the cake.


How To Make the Catch a Husband Cake
Step 1: Preheat and Prep
Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C). Grease and flour a bundt or tube pan to ensure easy release.
Step 2: Mix the Batter
In a large bowl, whisk together eggs, sugar, butter, and vanilla until smooth. Add in the sweetened condensed milk and coconut milk. Stir in flour and baking powder until fully combined. Fold in grated coconut.
Step 3: Bake It
Pour the batter into the prepared pan and smooth the top. Bake for 40–50 minutes, or until a toothpick comes out clean and the top is golden.
Step 4: Make the Glaze
While the cake bakes, combine 1 can sweetened condensed milk and ½ cup coconut milk in a saucepan. Simmer gently for 8–10 minutes, stirring constantly, until slightly thickened.
Step 5: Glaze and Garnish
Let the cake cool in the pan for 10 minutes, then turn out onto a serving plate. While still warm, pour the glaze over the cake and sprinkle generously with shredded coconut.
Step 6: Let It Set
Allow the glaze to soak in and set slightly before slicing. Serve warm or room temp. Add edible flowers for a romantic touch.
Serving and Storing Catch a Husband Cake
This cake is best served at room temperature when the glaze is slightly set and the crumb is ultra-moist. For special occasions, you can chill it slightly to help it firm up and slice cleaner.
Store leftovers covered at room temperature for up to 2 days, or refrigerate for up to 5 days. Bring chilled slices to room temp for the best flavor and texture.
What to Serve With Catch a Husband Cake?
Fresh Tropical Fruit
Think pineapple, mango, or papaya to enhance the coconut flavor.
Brazilian Coffee or Café com Leite
The slight bitterness of coffee balances the cake’s sweetness perfectly.
Whipped Cream or Coconut Cream
A dollop of airy cream adds lightness to every bite.
Caramel Flan
For a full-on Brazilian dessert table spread.
Lemon Churro Cookies
Add a citrusy cinnamon twist to your dessert pairing.
Vanilla Bean Ice Cream
Cool, creamy contrast that melts into the warm cake.
Brown Sugar Maple Cookies
Rich and chewy cookies make the perfect cookie-cake duo.
Want More Romantic Dessert Ideas?
If this Catch a Husband Cake stole your heart, you’ll fall for these other sweet creations:
- Pineapple Upside Down Cupcakes for a fruity twist in mini form.
- Chocolate Crinkle Sandwich Cookies with a ganache center that melts hearts.
- Salted Caramel Pecan Cookies for a nutty, golden crunch.
- Vanilla Tres Leches Cake if you love milky, moist cakes.
- Peanut Butter Blossom Cookies for timeless charm.
Save This Pin For Later
📌 Save this sweet and sentimental cake to your Pinterest dessert board and make it the next time love is in the air—or you’re just craving coconut.
Did he propose? Or did you just fall in love with cake all over again? Let us know in the comments.
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Catch a Husband Cake
- Total Time: 1 hour
- Yield: 10 servings
- Diet: Vegetarian
Description
Fall head over heels for this tropical Brazilian treat known as Catch a Husband Cake. This moist, coconut-rich bundt cake is soaked in a luscious sweetened condensed milk glaze and showered in shredded coconut for a finish that’s both elegant and wildly satisfying. The texture is soft and rich, yet the preparation is wonderfully simple. Whether you’re baking to impress someone special or just treating yourself to something magical, this dessert is love at first bite. It’s one of those perfect, easy dessert ideas that also fits into birthday cakes, brunch sweets, and “just because” bakes. Perfect for tropical dessert lovers, coconut cake fans, and anyone looking for a recipe with charm.
Ingredients
4 large eggs
1 cup sugar
3 tablespoons unsalted butter, softened
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 can sweetened condensed milk (14 oz)
1 cup coconut milk
2 cups all-purpose flour
1 tablespoon baking powder
1 cup grated coconut (plus more for topping)
1 can sweetened condensed milk (14 oz, for glaze)
½ cup coconut milk (for glaze)
Instructions
1. Preheat oven to 350°F (175°C). Grease and flour a bundt or tube pan.
2. In a large bowl, whisk together eggs, sugar, butter, and vanilla until smooth.
3. Add sweetened condensed milk and coconut milk to the bowl; stir well.
4. Mix in flour and baking powder until combined, then fold in grated coconut.
5. Pour batter into the prepared pan and bake for 40–50 minutes or until golden and set.
6. While baking, simmer sweetened condensed milk and coconut milk for glaze until thickened.
7. Let cake cool 10 minutes, then turn onto a serving plate.
8. Pour warm glaze over cake and sprinkle with extra grated coconut.
9. Allow to set slightly before serving. Add edible flowers for garnish if desired.
Notes
Let the glaze soak while the cake is still warm—it locks in extra moisture.
Edible flowers or toasted coconut flakes make beautiful final touches.
- Prep Time: 15 minutes
- Cook Time: 45 minutes
- Category: Dessert
- Method: Baked
- Cuisine: Brazilian
Nutrition
- Serving Size: 1 slice
- Calories: 420
- Sugar: 38g
- Sodium: 110mg
- Fat: 22g
- Saturated Fat: 17g
- Unsaturated Fat: 4g
- Trans Fat: 0g
- Carbohydrates: 50g
- Fiber: 2g
- Protein: 6g
- Cholesterol: 100mg